I'm sorry. ...For both, I mean. My mun is familiar with your canon, so I kind of am, secondhand? And... honestly, I'm surprised that you... put up with things like you did.
I'm a behavioural analyst, so I can tell you that that is a very manipulative and unhealthy relationship. You might have been ransomed, but that doesn't mean that you owe life or allegiance on the off chance that something good might happen.
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