Hakoda (
warriorchief) wrote in
dear_mun2012-02-29 01:18 pm
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Heart to Heart
Mundane...
I appreciate that you feel this will bring me closer to my children and their friends. In many ways, I'm sure you're right, but I worry that neither of us have thought this through thoroughly. You don't have the time, you've admitted that before, and...
[A sigh.]
A glimpse into my children's lives would be nice, I will admit that; however, they are and have always been very independent, willful individuals. If having me around means any determent to that growth, then I think I'd rather remain behind. I've made my mark, and now they deserve a chance to do the same.
Please, take some time to consider how this would not only affect the both of us, but also those we hold close.
I appreciate that you feel this will bring me closer to my children and their friends. In many ways, I'm sure you're right, but I worry that neither of us have thought this through thoroughly. You don't have the time, you've admitted that before, and...
[A sigh.]
A glimpse into my children's lives would be nice, I will admit that; however, they are and have always been very independent, willful individuals. If having me around means any determent to that growth, then I think I'd rather remain behind. I've made my mark, and now they deserve a chance to do the same.
Please, take some time to consider how this would not only affect the both of us, but also those we hold close.

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[Hakoda pauses, leaving a moment for himself to think.]
And yet, I fear being close to them would scrub away that opportunity. If I see them struggling, I will go to them every time.
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[The knight thinks about this. No experience with family at all gives him a strange view on it all.]
It sounds to me the problem lays in moderating yourself.
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So sorry for the giant tag, he rambles on this whenever it comes up.
I thoroughly enjoyed it!
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[He smiles warmly.] My mundane seems to agree with you, which I suspect is the reason I'm here at all. Perhaps you have some suggestions?
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[He grins.] Well, we could do something! I'm just sorta floating around in her head, trying to avoid all the others up here.
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[Whoah.]
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They're really stupid. Don't pay too much attention to them, okay?
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[And a thoughtful pause later.] You're likely correct about my children's initial reactions; however, I can see where having a... parent around could make a difference in what they feel they can and cannot do.
I'm not sure it's easy to explain to someone who has no children of his own. I don't mean to assume you wouldn't be up to the challenge of answering, only that fatherhood changes one's perspective dramatically.
[Followed immediately by a discerning eye.] You're... not a father yet, are you?
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[S-So embarassed.]
But, uh... From my own perspective, I'm really grateful that my uncle has always been there to help and support me. I think Katara and Sokka would feel the same way, if they had you around.
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Hnngh, typos. Sorry. >.<
no worries. I do the same sometimes. B)
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(don't mistake this as guilt-enabling! Sokka's just upset, that's all.)
No worries. Have some tl;dr.
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Dad!
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It's so good to see you! How have you been?
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We can't hold close or anything if you don't go anywhere.
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If nothing else, I'm glad for at least this short amount of time we'll share. How are you, son?
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[You... may have caught your husband off guard here. He stares for a too-long moment. How long has it been? Too long.]
[After a moment, he clears his throat and smiles a young, boyish smile that's only ever produced by her presence.]
If this be wisdom, then perhaps I've learned it in the many moons since you've been gone. It felt no different to me... only older.
[His gaze softens.]
I was not expecting to see you, but now that I have, perhaps the difference is more obvious.
You look well. And young. No older than the last day I saw you. My mundane says this is a... perk of this strange world between worlds.
Are you well, my wife?
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That icon... T_______T
<333
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oh my god do you mind a threadjack
Mom?
of course not <3333