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[foxtwin]

The additional details to my story are welcome.

The musings on if you could twist it to fit a young adult audience are not. If nothing else, sex and marriage are too intimately tied up in it. And my teenage years are of no interest to anyone.

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[downplaying]

I wouldn't say that last statement is true.

[foxtwin]

They were barely of interest to myself when I was living through them.

[downplaying]

Perhaps it'll change upon closer inspection. The process of writing down a life... It changes your perspective. I'm speaking from experience, here.

[foxtwin]

Perhaps. And I have been reminded, my story does start when I'm seventeen. Which is teenager-range in mun's world, I've been informed.

[downplaying]

A lot of people's stories begin when they're seventeen, it seems.

[foxtwin]

It's a good age for stories. You're nominally an adult, but still inexperienced and idealistic enough to get into trouble.

[downplaying]

Heartbreaks. Rebellion. Doubts and a hint of chaos. All elements that make for great storytelling.

[foxtwin]

Not as much fun when you're living it though.

[downplaying]

No. But it prepares you very well for the rest of your life, doesn't it?

[foxtwin]

[A light laugh]

I suppose that's a fair point.

[downplaying]

Honestly, though - I wouldn't have been without those particular experiences. Pain in any form can teach you a lot. Growing pains, too.

[foxtwin]

Sometimes, I think it's the only way we learn. Through mistakes and pain.

Stupid system if you ask me.

[downplaying]

Mistakes and pain make us want to seek change. Change makes us go forward. Going forward... is what life is all about.

[foxtwin]

If nothing else, it's better than staying still. But a girl can wish change didn't always have to hurt so much.

[downplaying]

So can a man.

[foxtwin]

I suppose so. But I've always found it polite not to make the assumption that I speak for others.

[downplaying]

Sometimes it's necessary for us to speak on the behalf of others. Not everyone has found their voice.

[foxtwin]

And some have voices not easily heard by those who need to hear. But I try to present my opinions as only my own. Until I know otherwise.

[downplaying]

"Listen and write what you hear, not what you're told."

[foxtwin]

Interesting advice. Good advice, but interestingly put.

[downplaying]

It's a quote by a friend of mine. He is good at distinctions like that.

[foxtwin]

Is he a writer?

[downplaying]

Yes. A poet. He lives in a country where these kinds of considerations are necessary.

[xochipilli_cursed]

I've known a few married couples who'd disagree.

[foxtwin]

With which part?