[Oh, right.]

Well, no. But she is the one responsible for...[Well, he has to pause there. It's still hard to talk about.] ...For how it happened. The details. My father's death. She made me a blight in the eyes of others.

[He shrugs, but it's more of an attempt to shrug away all these horrible feelings. He can totally do that.]

As I said, you are not alone in this.