Oh, well, brace yourself, because it's about to get worse.
You see psychology as judgement. You get annoyed by it because you've already judged yourself, and therefore you think of psychology as being irrelevant to you. You're not very fond of things you don't see as helpful, in case you hadn't noticed. When there's the remotest chance that it is relevant, you expect things to be enforced on you in response to previously stated judgement--like an 'active' science would.
Sorry to say, my friend, but it's not like that. All psychology does is reveal traits. A lot of the time it tries to reveal traits which should be changed for one reason or another. You say you see my point, but you don't know what to do with it. That's you saying there's no point in your changing, because you've already self-signed your condemnation.
And this is me telling you you're wrong. Forget about your own judgement. The least you can do is front up to ours.
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You see psychology as judgement. You get annoyed by it because you've already judged yourself, and therefore you think of psychology as being irrelevant to you. You're not very fond of things you don't see as helpful, in case you hadn't noticed. When there's the remotest chance that it is relevant, you expect things to be enforced on you in response to previously stated judgement--like an 'active' science would.
Sorry to say, my friend, but it's not like that. All psychology does is reveal traits. A lot of the time it tries to reveal traits which should be changed for one reason or another. You say you see my point, but you don't know what to do with it. That's you saying there's no point in your changing, because you've already self-signed your condemnation.
And this is me telling you you're wrong. Forget about your own judgement. The least you can do is front up to ours.