I don't think she considers it a job but you have to give her a chance. Let her make a choice with all the information instead of assumptions.

I don't see it that way either, but you know how easy it is for hate to cloud people's judgement. People were isolated and killed just for being different or looking like the enemy. I'd hoped that things would've changed by now but it still happens.

[Steve knows what he suggested is important and Tony has to come to terms with it. If Tony had felt that strongly about that encounter then he has to be careful even if the suggestion is one he has no intentions of taking back.]

You wouldn't be using me since I'm offering. It'd be helping a friend and there's nothing wrong with accepting that help if you want it.